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Spinsters, old maids, and changing ideas about being single on Quirkyalone Day 2013

Here’s me talking about spinsters, old maids, and how our ideas about being single have changed on this Quirkyalone Day 2013 on a wonderful hourlong NPR show out of Illinois. This was a great conversation with lots of smart callers

Posted in Politics, Press, Quirkyalone Day, Quirkytogether, Single Life, Technology + Modern Life

Quirkytogether Cards for Quirkyalone Day!

These cards are for the quirkyalones who are also quirkytogether in your life. They are a celebration of romantic love and individuality and they are absolutely delightful. They come to us from the talented Olivia Lane and are posted on

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Posted in Quirkyalone Day, Quirkytogether

How to Fall in Love with Yourself While You Look for Love

Dating is difficult. Inevitably, we get rejected. Or we reject. We want to keep our hearts open but they keep getting smushed. What does it take to fall—and stay—in love with yourself while you look for love? I’m doing a

Posted in Dating, Personal Growth, Quirkytogether, Single Life

A deep conversation about life (and coupling vs. “the tribe”) with Frank Moore

There is no complaining in Frank Moore’s world. We are all responsible for creating our own consciousness. That is what makes this rebel “cripple” performance artist, creator, and radical who has had cerebral palsy since birth so compelling—and why I

Posted in Personal Growth, Quirkytogether

Dear Quirkyalone: Send Us Your Questions and Concerns, Compliments and Complaints!

Dear Quirkyalone: Advice for QuirkyLiving is a weekly guest column by Lisa and Christina at the singles’ advocacy blog Onely. Our column appears here every Monday — but we’re running low on questions! So, dear readers: Do you have dilemmas, conundrums,

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Posted in Personal Growth, Quirkytogether, Single Life

Radically Honest Online Dating

Welcome to the online candy store of love, our dystopic world of disposable dating. Internet dating can become an exercise in ego stroking and gratification, getting emails and winks about how pretty and wonderful you are. It can be a

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Posted in Dating, migrate, Quirkytogether

Zeitgeist | Defending Marriage . . . and Singledom

So . . . is it better to be married or single? It’s a ridiculous question, of course.

The name of the game is happiness. Fulfillment. Living an abundant life. For some people that means marriage, for others it means independence. A lucky few manage to create committed relationships that don’t require sacrificing essential parts of themselves, or (even better) that actively support the things they value most in themselves.

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Posted in Books + Movies, Quirkytogether, Relationships, Single Life

The Truth About Me and Quirkyalone

Transparency is a major buzzword in Internet circles these days. It’s about sharing who you are through YouTube, Facebook, and Twitter, enough to make you seem more real and a little vulnerable. Transparency is said to bring us closer together.

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Posted in Quirkytogether, Relationships, Single Life
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Thanks for visiting Quirkyalone, the online home of the quirkyalone movement! I'm Lady Q Sasha Cagen and I'm the author of Quirkyalone: A Manifesto for Uncompromising Romantics and To-Do List: From Buying Milk to Finding a Soul Mate, What Our Lists Reveal About Us. I'm here to support you to lead your own self-approved, authentically you quirky life through my writing and online course GetQuirky. Learn more about me here.
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A quirkyalone is a person who prefers being single to dating for the sake of dating.

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