Additional Diagnostic Signs

Examine the following statements and indicate whether each one applies to you.

If you answer yes to six or more of these statements, chances are good that you have found your tribe.

Do you:

1. Display a talent for self-reflection
2. Believe that life can be prosperous and great with or without a mate
3. Create and maintain chosen families of friends
4. Treat life as one big choose-your-own adventure; there is no single road map for adulthood
5. Are not opposed to dating, but prefer not to date for social convention
6. Would rather be alone than be in a relationship in which you have to hold back an essential part of yourself
7. Generally feel a sense of compulsion to make a mark in culture and society, to express yourself, whether through art, writing, a small business, or activism
8. Recognize the ways in which society prescribes happiness primarily through romantic love, and understand the failings of such an approach
9. Have had a taste or a glimpse of a great love relationship (or encounter), which intensifies the desire to remain open to the possibility of finding a similar experience
10. Possess a talent at deconstructing love songs equal only to your vulnerability to them

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A quirkyalone is a person who enjoys being single (or spending time alone) and so prefers to wait for the right person to come along rather than dating indiscriminately. Quirkyalones prefer to be single rather than settle.
Quirkyalones can also be married or in a committed relationship (quirkytogether). You can be a man or a woman, any age. Quirkyalone is ultimately a philosophy about finding happiness within yourself whether you’re single or in a relationship.

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