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Quirkytogether Cards for Quirkyalone Day!

These cards are for the quirkyalones who are also quirkytogether in your life. They are a celebration of romantic love and individuality and they are absolutely delightful. They come to us from the talented Olivia Lane and are posted on

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Brazilian and Single? Today Is Your Day!

Today is the official day to celebration singledom in Brazil. Feliz Dia dos Solteiros! I found out when a Brazilian Facebook friend posted a photo of himself cooking alone and called it his “Feliz Dia dos Solteiros” photo! I spent

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The Power of Admitting You Don’t Have It Figured Out

I am training to be a life coach. It’s an honor to help people go down a path of honesty about what they really want to create in their lives and then help them go for it. I love coaching

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Jane Fonda Is A Born-Again Quirkyalone

In my book Quirkyalone: A Manifesto for Uncompromising Romantics, I describe the two types of quirkyalones: there are womb quirkyalones, who pretty much knew they were quirkyalone since birth, and born-again quirkyalones who have an Aha moment later in life.

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Quirkyalone Movie Alert: Ewan McGregor in Beginners

For those who ask, where are the men in the quirkyalone movement? Here’s a gorgeous, moving movie featuring a male quirkyalone lead (Ewan McGregor, beautifully vulnerable in the movie himself). Beginners weaves together two big qs: quirkyaloneness and queerness. Oliver

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Worried About Growing Old Alone? Don’t!

Most people fear growing old alone. Research shows senior singles are among the most satisfied singles: “Older singles (ages 65 and over) report the greatest level of happiness over the past 12 months, followed by 21-24 year olds.” Check out

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The Long-Awaited YouTube: State of Sex and Dating in San Francisco

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Join Me to Launch the Brazilian version of Quirkyalone!

The quirkyalone movement is arriving in Brazil! Santa Teresa, a hilltop neighborhood that is often compared to Montmartre in Paris for its bohemian atmosphere, rich cultural life, and (to me) intoxicating architecture is hosting an action-packed literary festival FLIST the

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What’s a quirkyalone?

You have landed on the online home of the quirkyalone movement!
A quirkyalone is a person who enjoys being single (or spending time alone) and so prefers to wait for the right person to come along rather than dating indiscriminately. Quirkyalones prefer to be single rather than settle.
Quirkyalones can also be married or in a committed relationship (quirkytogether). You can be a man or a woman, any age. Quirkyalone is ultimately a philosophy about finding happiness within yourself whether you’re single or in a relationship.

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